Helplessness and the Ballgag

“When combined with other physical restraints, the wearing of a gag can increase the wearer’s sense of helplessness and anxiety level by rendering them unable to speak…which some people enjoy.”

Rubber hood, gas mask and a big ballgag? How long would you last?

School P.E. Lessons and Bondage

Get your shorts on. Time for some exercise!

“The strappado bondage position…shares its basic principles of restraint with a method of torture and therefore can very easily become just that if not practiced safely.”

Should secondary school P.E. lessons be more like this?

The WTF Moment and Bondage

Anyone ever get those WTF moments when the roleplay fades, the bondage becomes very hard and real and you start to wonder how you got yourself into this situation? This was one of those moments.

Vulnerability and Rope Bondage

Rope bondage causes “a feeling of being restrained & not having any control, of not knowing what will happen next. There is fear & anticipation & a vulnerability which is both scary and appealing.”

Why do you like rope bondage?

Endorphins and Mummification

Mummification can be used to “release pleasurable endorphins, creating a sensation somewhat like runner’s high or the afterglow of orgasm, sometimes called ‘flying’ or ‘body stress’”.

How do you feel when mummifiied? Is it a pleasurable experience for you?

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When Does Bondage Become Non-Consensual?

“It isn’t bondage until you want out.”

At what point has bondage become real for you? When does bondage stop being ‘fun’? How many of you have stories of being kept in bondage longer than intended…either for better or for worse? Who has experienced a non-consensual situation?

Drop your stories into the comments section.

Can Bondage Be Non-Consensual?

Mummification is “a practice that needs to be completely, 100% consensual otherwise it may be faced as a crime of aggression.” However, bondage isn’t bondage until you want out.

What’s the closest you’ve come to non-consensual bondage?

Consent and Mummification

Research suggests that mummification is “a practice that also needs to be completely, 100% consensual, otherwise, it may be even faced as a crime of aggression.”

Can mummification be non-consensual?